I know a leader who learned sympathy when he lost his job. He admitted it’s easier to humbly love when life has knocked you down. When, as he would say, “You’ve got blood in your mouth.” I also know a pastor whose heart was softened by the death of his son. This pastor wouldn’t say it was worth it—and he’d be right—but his grief has made him a more compassionate shepherd.

Being broken is a reality of living in a fallen world where suffering persists. As God walks with us through the deeply painful times of life, He alone can provide the comfort and perspective we need.

Reflecting on his ministry, Paul emphasized the value of brokenness. Comparing himself to other leaders challenging his authority, he began by matching them title for title: “Are they descendants of Abraham? So am I. Are they servants of Christ? . . . I have served him far more!” (2 Corinthians 11:22-23). But Paul said he surpassed them in the suffering he’d endured. He’d been imprisoned, whipped, stoned, shipwrecked, hungry, and repeatedly near death (2 Corinthians 11:23-27). He preferred to celebrate these “weak” moments because they allowed the light of Jesus to shine through (2 Corinthians 11:30, 12:9-10).

A thick, ornate lampshade draws attention to itself, but a thin, transparent shade acts as an invisible lens for the light. Because Paul longed to point to Jesus, he was glad when trials “thinned” him out so Jesus became more visible.

If our purpose is the same, we too can “boast” about Christ’s power working through our weaknesses. We can experience His joy even in “the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that [we] suffer for Christ. For when [we are] weak, then [we are] strong” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10).

NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: 1 Samuel 9:1-21